When my best friend got married to a guy who wasn’t living in the same state that she was, there were one or two times during the planning when the stress got to her, and she pretty much lost it. I remember once when she and her fiance were trying to decide on color schemes for the groomsmen, while chatting online. Her fiance said that he wanted them to have blue ties, and she said that was fine. Then she asked what color blue, and he said… blue. You know how men are. She’d been getting really stressed about planning the wedding without him, and she tried to nicely narrow down the choices for him (cerulean, sky blue, midnight…) but he kept saying blue. Finally, she threw the webcam out the window. We took her out for a drink after that! :) — Jo