When I got married last fall, my husband and I were lucky enough to know a caterer, a band, an art teacher to help us with our table decorations, and a friend who was willing to get ordained and marry us. What we didn’t have was a photographer. As I began the hunt for someone who could capture our big day and not break our budget, I was, needless to say, overwhelmed.

What I ended up finding really helpful was the wedding issue of New York Magazine. I culled through their (rather long) list of photographers, noting which ones had a reasonable price point, and then visited their websites for more information and samples.

I ended up with Richard Jopson, a New York-based photographer. He had an unobtrusive shooting philosophy, shot on film, and allowed his clients to keep the negatives.

Richard was amazing. Looking back on the day, nobody can even remember his presence except for the group shots we gathered family for, and I mean that in the best way possible. He was everywhere, and nowhere. He didn’t bother a soul, and yet caught all the moments we would have hoped for.

So when you’re looking for a photographer to capture this most special day, here are a few questions to ask yourself:

1) How important is photography to you?
To some, it may be crucial; others may prefer a great band or amazing food.

2) What is your budget?
Never do something you can’t afford!

3) Do you want someone to melt into the background, or help guide the day?
Talk to your photographer and make sure you know their style.

4) Can you keep the negatives?
Some let you, some don’t. If you have the negatives, you can make extras anytime.

I leave you with some of the shots Richard got at our wedding. Enjoy!

One of our eclectic, fall-themed table decorations…Day of the Dead!

The Dress

The Tent, in living color

What can I say? We also know some jugglers.