True, the wedding plans may have gotten “bigger than Big,” especially after we were constantly reminded that this was his 3rd marriage; but it was Carrie’s first marriage and after 10 years of dealing with the guy, she deserved an event with all the glamour and panache NYC has to offer.

To ask your guests to financially support a candidate that they may not personally agree with not only alienates their democratic rights, the disrespect it shows could put a damper on your entire event.